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Question of the Week
For the past 20 or 30 years or so, a number of us have been meeting on a weekly basis to discuss topics of “Buddhist Methodist” import. Ten years or so ago (unlike most Methodists and a majority of Buddhists, our archives and record keeping are kept more spontaneously than rigorously) we started sending out a “question of the week” prior to our meeting in order to kick off our discussion. Most of us, find the “discussion starters” to be quite useful, though a few find such a format restrictive. Nevertheless, recently, it was suggested I start posting these questions of the week here on our website., for the growing number of “non-locals” who find this site useful, or at least interesting. I’ll add more questions– both new and from the archives, as time and inclination allow.
4/22/18 Question of the Week: Big I and Little I, Ram Dass , Don Juan and Joel Goldsmith
Bear’s Books
I enjoy writing books. I’ve published a dozen of them, on a variety of topics. Here they are, with brief introductions, from latest (2020) to earliest (1996).
How to Graduate from the Electoral College: A Layman’s Plan to Reclaim Voter Sovereignty
This little book was almost an accident. I thought we all agreed that the Electoral College failed to do what it was designed to do. But then some very bright, well-educated and insightful friends argued for keeping it. What? Colorado is going to be voting on this issue in November. So I started looking behind the curtain . . .Went all the way back to the Magna Carta. But it’s a quick read. I tried to make it fun.
How to Stop Smoking in One Easy Second—A Heart Mountain Monastery Murder Mystery
This is a novel, about an old guy who stops smoking in one easy second because he gets a bullet between the eyes. It’s told from his point of view, after he drops the body. I had a lot of fun with this. Hope you might too.
A Wave of Thanks—and Other Human Gestures: 31 Quick Stories
This is a small collection of small stories– flash fictions– most written fairly recently, though a few from years and years ago. They were fun to write. Hopefully they are fun to read.
Confessions of a Two Timer: How to Use an Ordinary Kitchen Timer to Find Flow, Overcome Procrastination, Win Prizes, Be Popular and Become a Neighborhood Buddha
I love this little book, mainly because I love my little timer. After writing the book, I love– and use– my timer even more. I convinced myself. You might also get convinced.
The Smoker’s Prayer: The Spiritual Healing of Tobacco Addiction with or without Chantix, Nicotine Patches, Hypnosis, Jail Time or Duct Tape
I had to be an old guy, with thirty years in the business, before I had the gonads to write this book. You can buy it cheap– just 99 cents– on Kindle. ($9.99 for the print copy.) I’d love to hear your response.
The Potless Pot High: How to Get High, Clear and Spunky, without Weed
I wrote this book because there was none other like it—not fearful of or condemning pot smokers, just showing how to get high and stay high with less hassle.
How to Stop Smoking in 15 Easy Years A Slacker’s Guide to Final Freedom
If you’re still smoking after many years of trying to quit, this fun and radical little book just might set you free. I wrote it shortly after retiring from the business, lest I forget . . .
<Happy John: An Advaita (non-dual) Gospel
This is the Book of John (yes THE Book of John) rendered through a contemporary, non-dual point of view. “In the beginning was the word, and the word was Joy.” Here in my dotage, I’m thinking it might be my best book.
Practicing the Presence of Peace
This is my non-religious “updating” of the 17th Century spiritual classic The Practice of the Presence of God, by Brother Lawrence. This book talks about retaining peace during traffic jams, homework assignments, election seasons. I really like it.
The Enlightened Smoker’s Guide to Quitting: Learn to Forget to Smoke
This book was first published in 1998 and republished in 2010. It’s a fun, upbeat book that has helped smokers all over the world.
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How to Help Your Smoker Quit: A Brave and Happy Strategy
If you have a smoker in the family, or close by, your reading this book will help you relate and help in ways that will happily surprise you and your smoker!
Now Hiring: Finding & Keeping Good Help for Your Entry-Wage Jobs
This book, written with Steve Lauer, is now 25 years old. But the principles remain the same. Maybe the pandemic makes it a whole new challenge. Again, the principles remain the same.
Methods
The method of 'no method'
reading
writing
the scientific methodhod >
Self Inquiry
Non Duality
The Get High Method
Dream Study
Meditation
prayer
Healing Methods
Study and Discussion Groups
Environmental and political activism
Games
Music
Movement: Dance, Yoga, Kriya
Public Service
The Most Dangerous MethodBest Methods for:
Mrs. Life and the 10,000 Names for God
Recently wrote a small piece for the Heart Mountain Monastery site with the above title. If such a topic interests you, you can find it here.
Gandhi on Roe vs. Wade
GANDHI IN THE HOOD I drove past our local Planned Parenthood this morning and as usual, (it’s on my regular route) there were two groups of protesters …
Gandhi, Trump, Black Lives Matter and Moi
I was recently reading a delightful contemporary Sufi book—Sacred Laughter of the Sufis, by Imam Ajamal Rahman. Right at the start I came across the story of how Mahatma Gandhi, while still in South Africa, was thrown off a passenger …
One Way to Pleasantly Structure These Unstructured Days
An old buddy called this morning and told me, to my delight, that “this timer thing really works.” He said he had been more “leisurely productive” in the past week than he had been in years. The ”timer thing” he …
How Not to Take the Lord’s Name in Vain
“It’s hard to figure out who is high integrity and low integrity. Generally, the more someone is saying that they’re moral, ethical and high integrity, the less likely they are to be that way. . . . If you openly …
Live Long and Prosper
Here’s a wonderful interview with Leonard Lemoy about the origins or “live long and prosper.” It might be a better gesture than elbow to elbow! So, live long and prosper!
A 5-Second Personal Protection Prayer in the Time of Virus
(The 5-second start-anywhere prayer.) WARNING: It will take a slow to average reader about six minutes to read this little essay. This is five minutes and fifty-seconds longer than it takes to engage the five second prayer (mental health exercise) …
Locked Down with the Dalai Lama
Woke up this morning musing about being locked down with the Dali Lama—made to stay at home, quarantined—with the Dali Lama. Wondered what that would be like if we were one of his household. …
Tarantino Considers Easter
By Liam Rooney So Mr. Tarantino liked my script? He read it, right? What questions? Well I was hoping to talk to Mr. Tarantino himself. Oh no, no. I’m glad to talk to you. Okay, yes…changes? To the script? Uh …
Suggestions on Who We Should Save
Have been pondering the terrible—yet somewhat scintillating—question of “who to save” that a growing number of doctors and health professionals have been forced to consider, what with the seeming scarcity of ventilators. (“If either Joe or Mary get …